Wednesday, June 12, 2013

The Perfect Day

The Perfect day consists of me and my best friend Mike :)
It also consists of;
The perfect weather
perfect people
perfect dress
perfect hair
perfect nails
perfect family
perfect temple
perfect man
perfect ceremony

I couldn't have asked for a more better perfect day!
Thanks to everyone who made it so perfect! :)

I love April 11th  :)





Thanks to Melissa, Kylee and Sarah for making me look so perfect with hair, make up and nails for my wedding day!! they did an amazing job!!
my neices anxiously waiting for us to come out of the temple
Mike's parents talking to Jerry and Andy and Jessica while waiting for us 


Here comes the Bride...Mrs. Duke




                                                     Mr. and Mrs. Mike and Lanae Duke



YEAH!



                                                                  Mike's family
                                                                       My family
                                                             Bestie Courtney :)
                         Kylee, Melissa, and Sarah - thanks for the perfect hair, make up and nails girls
                                                      Jerry, Andy and Jessica
                                                  I LOVE my nieces and nephews










Thursday, May 2, 2013

Marriage

I love being married!

My wedding day was absolutely perfect! I couldn't have asked for a more perfect better day :)  
Also thanks for such a wonderful photographer to catch some wonderful moments and pictures :) 
check out some of our pictures on this blog:
rockcreekphotography.blogspot.com

I posted this the day before my surprise honeymoon destination:

Married life is amazing!!! :)
Our wedding day was perfect; perfect weather, perfectly sunny, perfect ceremony, perfect in every way.
We are so thankful for all the family and friends that made the sacrifice to come to our wedding and celebrate and support us. We are couldn't have asked for a better wedding.
My sister and my parents planned two very wonderful, amazing receptions (along with many friends), we loved everything about them! Perfect!
I have to also thank my wonderful friends who helped me look gorgeous in my gown.
I love being married am so blessed and thankful for such a Perfect day!!

We are now on our way to our honeymoon, heading first to LA, then making our way to the surprise destination! :) I can't wait!!

We love everyone and again thank you for all the love and support!


love Mike and Lanae Duke xoxo


The surprise destination will be revealed (if you don't already know) in a few days when I can download our pictures :)


Check out the few pictures we have from our wedding on facebook and let me know what you think!!

love the Dukes!!! ;)

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

VW

My cars story---
I spotted my car, a shiny silver VW jetta, about 5 years ago.  parked on the side of the road in a business complex parking lot.  My dream car!! I wanted it so bad! I thought it was too good to be true.  I looked into it. looked it up on kelly blue book, the whole bit; i did it!
Then I test drove it....absolutely my dream car! clean. new. fancy. and Fast! :)
I have Always always wanted a VW jetta and here is one staring me in the face....what do I do?!?!  Well I talked to the bank and a few short days later.....It was MINE! :)  I was so happy!!   But wait now I had two cars....oh crap. haha. I bought my first car; honda accord (a little but older) in cash. in full by myself! I was so proud of myself. I bought it. it was mine. I didn't have a car payment. It ran great! and I fell in love with it.  So now what do I do with two cars?! hmm sell it? or keep it? well I did just buy a sweet car that i'm going to have monthly payments on. the new one is better. etc etc. .....well needless to say I couldn't give it up so easy.  I held on to it for awhile. It sat in the back yard for a while.  Then Mike and I decided to go to China to teach English. and well with that comes 6 months of bills still, so I sold my precious honda for the exact amount I bought it, which was also the exact amount I needed for 6 months to pay for my new car while I was gone.  It worked out perfect. :)
Now here I am four years later still trying to pay off my car as fast as i can.  

Well today changed my life.  I accomplished something I didn't think I would ever see the end to and what a great relief it is to feel.   Working hard pays off. Working hard for four years pays off. and working hard and paying extra payments every once in a while pays off.
Today, Feb. 19, 2013, changed my life.....I PAID OFF MY CAR!!!!!!! I'm a free woman! I was NEVER late for a payment and now I can drive my car and feel so good that I don't have to pay any more monthly payments!!! YEAH!!

I am so proud of myself and I can do hard things! :)

Thursday, February 14, 2013

FYI

Yes, we have moved the date up to April 11, 2013!!!! AHHHHH!!!!
 It's going to be the best day of my life!! I have waited four long years for this day and I want it to be perfect; well as perfect as I can get it.
Some people say go cheap to save money I say do the best I can to get what I want because it only happens once.  right?
Well just stressing out, just a little bit, but I know many of you would love to help and want to help, but as for now I don't even know what I'm doing, haha. but if you have any ideas for center pieces for a country rustic antique theme then share your ideas!! Please!!!   Other than that I don't know what I'm doing yet, I'm still trying to get the small details figured out so I can tell/ask you to help me soon....:)

But keep asking and I may have come up with something :)

Thanks everyone for the love and support!
I couldn't do it without you!

P.S. yes the dates for receptions have changed so either ask or just stay tuned to the wedding announcement for more details :) thanks

Valentines

HAPPY VALENTINES DAY SWEETY :)
I love you and miss you tons!
I wish you were here to celebrate with me;  aka spoil me and spoil me some more ;)

But you will be here soon!! :)

You are such an amazing man to me i love you bunches

X O X O




Tuesday, February 12, 2013

ENGAGEMENT

ok, so im like THE worst lier ever. I have told you for almost two months now that my engagement story was coming soon. yep liar. sorry :( I had this cool idea to have Mike write it and he keeps forgetting,....so....I'll just go ahead and do it myself :) not getting mad at Mike or anything, he is just busy planning his part of the wedding, so I told him I would take care of this... :)

It was a cold Dec. day, Dec 22, 2012, to be exact. Mike had told me the night before that he had an idea planned for tomorrow. I said ok sure!  It had been a crazy busy week, with my work and mike's car getting hit etc etc.   He told me that night that he wanted to go on a picnic (remember it's three days before Christmas in windy, cold, east Idaho).  I laughed and said ok. why?  He responded, because I heard it was supposed to snow tomorrow (again laughing in my head, "Since when have you wanted to go on a picnic in the dead of winter in the snow?) he continued with,...and plus I want to do something fun together before I leave."  I said oh ok :) man what a great guy!!! (I thought :)).
It was a Saturday.  He was scrambling all day to get some errands done. he called me at like 11 am and said he might just have to meet me in Rexburg (I had an appointment at 1pm) because he wasn't sure if he would be done in enough time to pick me up and get me to my appt. on time. Well he called me an hour later and said he was done with his errands and said it was quite stressful and frustrating and said he was on his way to pick me up.  wow! I thought.
He came and picked me up.  As we were driving to Rexburg I asked what he packed in our lunch, he laughed and said babe, i didn't pack a lunch I thought we would grab a sandwich on the way out of town. I laughed right back and said OH, ok, right.... (man what was I thinking, silly).  I said oh i thought since you said you wanted to go on a picnic you would have packed something.  HE laughed again saying babe I'm not THAT good. lol :)
We got closer to Rexburg, and he asked if I wanted to know where we were going. I said of course said, NO. I love surprises and I hate it when they ruin surprises. men.... He said well let me just tell you so you know what we are doing so you can pick where we are going to get our food; I was a little reluctant and said oook...."I wanted to take you up Mesa Falls" oh yeah!! how fun babe!! ok!! I was so excited!!!
Well needless to say we had made plans that night to be in Blackfoot by 5:15ish for a live nativity with Jill and her husband. so we kind of needed to hurry.  My appt. too WAAAY longer than it should have and then I made him stop at a friends house to drop something off. poor guy I was ruining his plans.  but he was such a good sport about it all. :)
We finally got our Subway sandwiches and got on the road.  It hadn't snowed a ton, but there was snow on the ground.  We turned off the head to Mesa Falls and the roads got a little worse. nothing too bad.  Mike kept laughing because he said I hope the roads dont get worse because there is a big hill we have to drive up to get to the falls.  I laughed a fake laugh. bad roads make me nervous.  As we kept getting higher in the hills and as the trees got thicker the roads were getting extremely worse.  We went up a hill and I asked is this the hill, he laughed and said nope!  oh geez I thought.  That same question and same answered got repeated several times.  And before we knew it there was a sign that said something like 'no winter maintenance beyond this point'.  We both read the sign then looked back at the road and sure enough that point was the end that the road had been plowed.  We were descending, kind of loosing tire grip and I was expecting to run into the 9 ft. tall snow bank they stopped in the middle of the road. Mike quickly turned into the parking lot and we barely missed the snow bank.  That was a close one we both then laughed!! :)    but then, Dang it! we can't get to Mesa Falls  :(
We ventured back to my house just in time to take a quick sit down break before heading to blackfoot for our live nativity.  We had a fun night with Jill and her husband and daughter at the live nativity.
Mike and I were both set to leave tomorrow afternoon, sunday, to go our separate ways for the holidays, and for him to head to KY for the semester....and because of that we were set to open our gifts for/from each other that night. We came home from the nativity and organized a few things then ventured to my room where all our gifts were under my christmas tree :)  He said he needed to do something first and that I wasn't allowed in for a second. I said oook....He came out and said ok your good.  I walked in and noting was changed or different. At this point I thought he was being silly and crazy. I came in excited because I had bought him THE ONE thing he wanted for Christmas, I was SO excited to see his reaction. :)
I knelt down next to the tree and said ok which one would you like me to open first?? He said umm this one. and pointed to a small white bag.  I said ok! He was on the other side of the room scared to come over, so I stopped and said come over here. he said no just open it, I said no come over here. He replied I can see from here. I said no this is from you you need to come watch me open it :)  He stepped a tad closer and said just open it.....:)  I thought alllllrrriiiiight.....Well I grabbed the bag and set it on the bed and was opening it very slowly. he laughed and said just open it. I knelt down next to the bed and put the bag on the bed then leaned it over to look inside, barely getting a look on the outside but did notice a big J and a large outline of a diamond.  But never thought anything of it because every Christmas since we started dating, July 4, 2009, Mike has given me a necklace. So I was excited to see what kind of necklace it could be....much to my surprise there was a little white box at the bottom, I looked at him and he smiled at me.  I looked back down to open the box and lifted the lid......empty....I smiled and tipped the box over to pretend to dump it out in case it was stuck on the bottom.  haha.  (As I was looking down Mike had turned around and grabbed the real box hidden from on top of my dresser), I looked up and Mike fell to one knee and opened the jewelry box and said Lanae will you marry me?? I immediately covered my mouth and started crying and said oh my gosh babe. oh my gosh. are you serious?! are you serious?! I looked at the ring and said through my tears Its gorgeous! It's beautiful!  I  was speechless and Totally SUrprised!!! I was in shock. I said babe I love you :)  and gave him a big hug.  Mike then said are you going to say yes?!  I laughed and said oh yes! yes! yes!! we both laughed really hard! LOL :)
Then next day was Sunday,  the  Ward Christmas program. mike told me he had planned to stay to watch me sing in the program, but I thought he had only planned to stay because i kept bugging him to and because of the hit and run on his car.  Mike also told me the reason he wanted to take me to Mesa Falls was because that was where we had one of our first dates :) What a thoughtful, romantic guy I found! :)

Sorry it was so long, but that's our engagement story :)


Love you babe!  xoxo

Monday, January 28, 2013

some days are easier....

Some days you just deserve everything that is 'given' to you.  Other days you think why am I so blessed?!! And other days you just want to cry because some thing bad happened or because something happy happened; and today is my day to cry.
This weekend I lost one of the greatest people I know, our dear dear close family friend Paul.  He was my dad's best friend but like a big brother/ a second dad.  He taught me so much and was such a great example to me and my family was so kind and dear to us.  I have known him my whole life.  What a sad day to hear such devastating news! :(  I don't know what else to say except he will be missed ESPECIALLY from my family.  We love you Paul!
On the other hand today was a day to laugh and play in the snow.  We basically got snowed in today but still had to go to work with almost a foot of snow.  As I approached work I had to help me dear friends Kylee and Melissa from work out of the snow as they both had slid into a bank of snow at an intersection :)  It was great fun! :)
I am also crying today because Satan is real. He is REAL.  that's all I can say about that.  Satan is real and pushing my buttons and there was a strike and it hurt. and now I feel bad.  Patience and prayers are real too and that is where I would much rather be. :)
I love my life.  It can get stressful sometimes but we need to remember patience and a smile :)  It can go a long way.  I'm still learning and struggling with this.  Please forgive me.
Just a lot of emotions happening at once.
Hope you all had a great day!!

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

engagement story coming soon....

wedding ideas

The stress is starting to build.
I'm worried about girls camp.
i'm worried about things are work.
I'm worried about the wedding and how to make it exactly how I want it/to be perfect and i'm just freaking out a little...
But as of late Mike and I have wondered if moving the wedding up would work better.  everyone around me thinks we should. I was worried mom would care, but she doesn't. my sister, my best friend, my friends at work and many others think that moving it up would be better, more fun, less stressful, and HECK YES!!  But I don't know. I have always wanted a summer wedding and I fee like if I move it up I will regret it later or crush my dream. (ya know you only get married once).
Mike and I are having a hard time deciding.
Insight would help.
I'm torn, because my all means i would love to 'get it over with'. and enjoy the summer with him and have a less stressful semester while he is in school. but I have my wedding planned out in my head and on paper etc and just want to fulfill my dream.
What do you think?!?!

Thursday, January 10, 2013

YEP....

You heard and read right.... BRACE FACE on this face for five very long months! :(
but i just have to remember at least it's not two years and it will look better in the end. just remember that Lanae. i think i can. i think i can.
UGH but i hate them. but nothing i can do about it now. just trying to enjoy it. UGH
ill post a picture soon I'm sure.
i never thought i would be getting braces at 27 YEARS OLD!!!  UGH
now i can officially relate to my patients and I can officially be apart of this largely known cult/club...braces club/ braces face club. bring it on...four eyes and braces! UGH!
oh well. ill laugh about it later.
love my dr.'s to death but hate them for making me put braces on during my engagement! UGH
LOL see im laughing about it now HAHA

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

ugh...

I wish I could just get married tomorrow!!
I hate having to wait SOOO long! :( I have waited FOUR years to get married to this man, and now your telling me I have to wait EIGHT more LONG months!! UGH!  so many others are getting married before me and/or got engaged after me and are still getting married before me!! UGH!
GEEZ
but really. WHY?!
elope?
Wait?
move up the wedding day?
Hmmmm.....decisions, decisions. decisions.....
What would you do?!?!

Saturday, January 5, 2013

stress really does exist

Wow,
talk about a frustrating day already and it's only noon!! AHHH
let's just get this all over with and be done. i don't want to drag this out any longer.
i hate having to work around so many people and so many places. i have no patience and no time for this. working 40 hr a week plus planning girls camp and a wedding. i need people to help me out here. be a little more open with communication and timing. like really people. geez. I'm going in-sane over here!  some support would be nice.
sorry just had to vent.

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

August 2, 2013


Will be The Best Day Ever!
Every day I get more and more excited about marrying my best friend. He is so handsome and thoughtful and smart. and he loves me and lets me be me. He tells me I'm beautiful; and means it; no matter what. He is my love. and he is my everything.
It will be a long 7 months, but I can do it. right?
I have pretty much everything planned already (thanks to be older and knowing exactly what you want. and having great friends and family help me and support me with everything)!
I love you all! and can't wait to see you all at my reception, while I am wearing white :)
It's finally MY turn!!

Saturday, December 29, 2012

dress

I FOUND MY DRESS!!!!
I can't give any details about my dress, because my fiancee reads my blog :) but you will love it!  I'm getting SO DANG EXCITED about everything!!!
Thanks everyone for all your love and support!

Friday, December 28, 2012

post Christmas

I can't believe Christmas is over. It sure can and went this year. Nothing too exciting. But I did get to have a few days off from work and spend time with most of my siblings at my parents house. :) Which is always nice.

But I have starting to stress out a little bit with Jan coming, because once January hits the months will just fly by and I'll blink and be married!! I'm also stressing out because I have to get braces before I get married and Mike had to go home to Kentucky for the semester and I don't live near my mom to plan the wedding, so I stressing out just a little bit.

But I'm just thankful I have a wonderful family and sweet friends to help me and the greatest, bestest, hottest, sweetest, smartest, creativest, caringest,  loveliest, FIANCEE EVER!!!!!

P.S. I know all of those words aren't real words haha ;)
I love you babe! I can't wait for Aug!

Thursday, December 27, 2012

Dec. misc. 2012

For Thanksgiving Mike and I drove up to WA to be with his family. 
All the ladies in his family go shopping for Black Friday deals and love it! They take their time and enjoy each others company and just shop, to try to get it all done in one day.  During our 17 hour shopping day (5:30am to 10pm), we stop to eat  lunch and dinner and drop off gifts at his aunts house before we make the venture north to Lyden, WA to look in small shops and window shop, all on our way up further north to the one and only Canada! :)  It's such a blast!! Yes it's a long day but it goes by fast and it's fun to hang out with these ladies (soon to be family members) and chit chat and laugh...and create memories :)  Like smuggling Mike's mom in Canada both ways LOL
Windmill in Lyden, WA

 The streets of small town Lyden, WA
 For Thanksgiving we met up with a few friends and walked the street(s) of Pike Place Market, but that was also the day I had no luggage because Mike had forgot it at his aunts house up north, so we had to 'shop' at walmart for some pants and I pretty much looked like a scuz but it's the small things in life that you can laugh about and make memories of :)  Thank babe :p  When we left Pike Place Market we realized we didn't take a picture of us four or even us two so we hurried and took a fe pictures before we got back in the car. (what you don't know is that Pike Place Market is right behind us around this building....)


 I had cleaned Mike's car trunk out so we could pack the car and drive to WA for Thanksgiving. He had a large load of clothes, which were VERy dirty, so I washed them for him.  When we got back from WA after a few days he realized he didn't have clean loungish pants, so he grabbed a pair from the clothes I washed and came walking out of his room saying "umm I think I don't fit in these clothes anymore.  I think these fit me a few pounds ago" LOL LOL LOL  His roommate Pat and I rolled over laughing on the floor for about an hour. I had to hurry and get my camera out before he changed. Mike was trying to run away and change but Pat and I make him let us take a picture, that is why it's so blurry LOL LOL !!!!  It was HILARIOUS!!
 The day we were moving Mike out of his apartment it was lightly snowing outside.  We were standing outside talking after we had got him all moved out and we were deciding where to go eat or something.  All of a sudden he said looked at me strangely. Said, "don't' move". I said, "oooookaaayyyyy".  He asked where the camera was, mentioned it was in my purse. He climbed in my car looked for the camera in my purse while I was standing statute still outside in the cold.  Of course he couldn't find it, so he handed me my purse and I grabbed it right out.  I still don't know what he is trying to do. I still am standing still.  he then takes a picture of my hair and shows me,...the PERFECT snowflake!!  It looks so awesome!!  good eye babe! ;)
 My fun, loving, smart, cute, Primary CTR 5 class
Don't mind my pal Bryce trying to mess up our pictures and cover Jaicee's face and my face...But I sure do LOVE them to DEATH!!! :)
 That's better :)
 Bryce giving me hugs and then running his fingers through my hair :)
I'm going to miss this class SOOOO MUCH!!!
 Live Nativity in Ucon, ID
It was so windy and cold, but we just had to pet Ralphi the camel and take a picture :)


What a great way to enjoy this time of year and remember Thee and all that He has done for us! :)

Happy birthday Mike! Surprise! :)

I love surprising Mike and keeping him on his toes ;)
This year my friend Brittany and I decorated his apartment door and his car for his 26th birthday at about 2am.  We had a blast! It worked out because his birthday was on a monday so I spent the night at Brittany's because I work in Rexburg on Monday's and because I threw him a Surprise party after FHE, so he had no idea :) It was perfect!




 His surprise party
 Mike talking to his good friend/old roommate VH
 opening gifts...
 Mike loves Seattle Seahawks (he is from Seattle)...
 His BEST friend Adam (in the background) drove all the way from Seattle and surprised him and was so generous and brought a few gifts! :) Thank you Adam
 Candy grams are so fun to make :)
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIKE-my babe 
I LOVE YOU!!